So, by now you know I've been trying to fill this summer with special memories. Last night I had the great idea to keep the kids up later and watch the harvest moon come over the mountains. I didn't think it would be too late of a night and thought it would be a fun thing to add to the memory bank. I also imagined it could be a tad bit romantic and so I took a couple of blankets along so we could all sit on the top of the van on some lonely, dark road and Steve and I could steal some smooches while the kids were mesmerized by the moon and the being allowed on the van.
INSTEAD:
As we left the driveway Steve and I kind of asked each other where we thought we were going and Steve came up with the idea of a elementary school playground close enough by, but far enough in the country to leave behind a whole bunch of street lights. So far, so good.
We were nearly there when Leah let out the distressed cry, "MY GLASSES!!" Now, this makes me irritated enough on Sunday mornings, for example, but now, when we didn't have a ton of extra time to spare?? Her Daddy offered to go back with her and get them...and my great plans were finished with that.
Unfortunately I cannot say that I was good about it at all.
These three kids stayed with me (Sam was at a sleepover) and we set up our blankets on the school field. We were warm, we were comfortable, some of us were more than comfortable....uh HELLO Cam??!!
In between watching every vehicle that came by on the main road beside us (far enough away not to bother us) to see if it was Papa and Leah coming back yet, we saw an incredible display of the moon come up...by ourselves.
I got amazing pictures of it a) because I really know how to take pictures b) because even my best efforts to take pictures without a tripod were thwarted by the children hanging on my arms as they fretted about Steve and Leah missing out.
But the night wasn't completely ruined yet and when Steve and Leah did come back we ran to the van hopped in and asked Steve if we could race further east and find a spot closer to the mountains where we could watch the moon come up all over again.
Too bad for the communication channels, Leah was in the front seat so I took Sam's booster in the very back. Also Odyssey was in the throes of Bart Rathbone eating Mrs. Washinton's Sunday cheesecake. In other words there was no talking to Steve.
After he'd driven past the next school field I was picturing and turned left instead of right like I was thinking, I yelled loud enough for them to hear me up front and got the Odyssey story turned off. He told me that he was thinking a school field further east and I told him what I was thinking and he turned around to go with my idea of parking on the side of Annis Road.
And here is where things really went south.
He pulled up to the front of the little pullout and when I hopped out of the van. I decided based on where the moon came up at the last field, the van was a little too far ahead and the moon was going to come up right behind the big power poles there. Steve warned the kids to get back in the van and backed up just as I requested. Then we got them on the roof and I tried to dodge the many vehicles racing past to get a picture of them.
All the while Cam wailed about how he was scared of the van tipping over and Steve was instructing me to put him back in the van.... and I was ignoring him.
Crying kid....fix it.....sound familiar to any of the Overduin adults present the other night????!!!!
The tension sky rocketed right there and in between Steve's just wanting the crying to stop and my wanting it to stop and keep everyone on top of the van plus directly going against what Steve asked me to do...well, let's just say the air was decidedly a lot chillier all of a sudden.
And every romantic notion I had pictured vanished into thin air.
Cam did eventually stop crying but the moon took about 35 more minutes to come up, Cara decided she didn't want to watch and fell asleep on my lap, Leah and Cam had more fun waving at ALL the cars and semis whizzing by and trying to make them honk. So much for a dark, quiet road.
And to top it all off, the moon came up right behind the power tower... we would probably been better off where Steve had first stopped.
So, learn from me, when trying to plan something memorable and romantic with the kids, expect it to fail. And don't worry, I won't be surprised when you don't send your daughters to me for a lesson in submission. :(
ps. I just googled harvest moon and apparently the northern hemisphere's harvest moon isn't until Sept 19 - 20. Ah well, it probably will rain next month :)