Warning: This is a long story mostly for my own memories sake. While you're certainly welcome to read it, no one is going to be offended if you decide it's too wordy a post for your time constraints! If you do decide to plow through, what can I say but thanks for enjoying our bike ride with us?!
Last night the twins had their promised sleep over at Gramps and Gramma's house. I slept amazing. :) I haven't called Gramma yet.
But with the twins away Steve had an idea to go for a bike ride with the kids. And not just any bike ride. He wanted to prepare them so they could do the Hope Classic with him next month. When we mentioned a bike ride at supper the kids immediately hopped into a heated discussion about where we should go. They were voting for a short hop a few blocks away with stops at the controversial bike park (where Sam just about lost his 4 front teeth) and a few playing parks. We let them discuss (well ok, for honesty's sake I should say ARGUE bitterly) for a little bit and then Steve informed them of the intended route and purpose for the evening's ride.
And they cheered, jumped up and down, raced around to get ready to go. Not!
They started up all manor of complaints about it being boring and long but Steve just went on his merry way packing up bikes, helmuts, kids and their unsure mother into the truck. It wasn't that I didn't want to go but it was already 7:00, I was tired myself and Sam was on his third day of run-for-2-straight-hours soccer camp and 1/2 hour of two-people-in-the-class-learn-lots swimming lessons. I was worried about exhuastion disaster before we left the supper table.
We established a single file order, Mom, Leah, Sam, Cam and Dad and hopped on our bikes. Almost immediately the complaint was that I wasn't going fast enough. But we left the parking lot where the race starts and weren't even 50 feet down the road and Sam was already standing still at the back of the line up with a very unhappy look on his face. Steve went back to give him a pep talk and as they approched us I suggested since he was the runner, he went first and I took the back.
Looking back, I do think he was quite delighted with the suggestion. At any rate, he sure didn't say no! Off he sped with Leah and Cam right behind him and Sam and I moseying along, me saying all kinds of encouraging and motivating things to get Sam steamed up and eager to do this. We were doing not too bad until Sam in his continued, I'm-not-gung-ho-about-this-and-I'm-making-sure-you-know-it, didn't cross the road when I told him to.
Now, in my defense, the road is a older, winding country road, the sun was in a scarier position and while the road isn't exactly hugely busy, the cars tend to coming flying around the corners. And while Sam was being a bit of a turkey about the whole thing, I love him dearly and didn't want to see him slammed by a vehicle.
So I did what any frustrated and worried mother worth her salt does at such a time as this. I freaked out on him, yelled and hollered and made sure he knew I wasn't happy that he didn't obey when I knew it was safe.
He did what any frustrated and tired 6 year old boy does at same such time. He cried. He wailed. He made his way down the next road getting further and further behind with a very unbalanced tears trailing down his cheeks to wailing noises ratio. In other words. This lad was using his lungs to whine loudly.
I think the saving factor was Cam, who on a bike that's a bit too small for him, was starting to fall a little further behind because his legs couldn't keep up a 500 rotations per minute pace. Not feeling so left behind, we worked together as a group to catch up to Leah and Steve who were increasing the gap by the minute. Sam caught up but Cam's bike wasn't going to make for such allowances.
Cam cheerfully let them go until 100 meters up the road he and I got to the stop sign and Dad, Sam and Leah were out of sight. For a minute there I considered turning around with this boy and heading back to the truck to wait for everyone else to come back. We were 1 km into a 8 km bike ride and unless Steve thought to stop and wait for us, there was no way we were going to catch up! Only 2 things stopped me. The thought of the very happy mosqitoes that would happily munch on us seeing as the truck keys were with Steve and a huge mountain of pride.
On we peddled. And boy is that Cam a trooper. He still wasn't completely happy not knowing where Steve was but I think it was mostly my fault because I had conveyed a lack of certainty about where we were and which direction we were heading. In other words, this kid was freaking out that we were going to get lost. I was freaking out that Steve would think I was close enough behind to let Sam fall back if he needed and that at some point I would come across a very distressed Sam waiting for us to show up.
Once we had passed the dogs that came onto the road to say hello and once Cam was sure I knew we were going the right way we had a wonderful time. He hadn't really whined yet, more worried than whining so once he stopped worrying he started chatting up a storm with insight and observation that only a newly turned 5 year old comes up with. A totally delightful time.
But it was a long bike ride and this kid was sitting on a awful seat so he started telling me about his sore butt. And I was epathizing!!!
This whole bike ride scenario reminded me of the times Steve first started taking me running. I loved long distance running but hadn't done it too much and I could still here him one day when running in a group, one person less happy about the run than some of the others and Steve said, "run to the next pole". He taught us as a group that if you were getting tired the best thing was to look ahead, find an acheivable goal and run to it. Then find the next goal and keep putting one foot ahead of the other, even if your goal was just to get from one telephone pole to the other.
The other thing I was reminded of on this trip was of the night Steve and I ran 14 km. Yup, we were cool like that and lots of our dating time was spent running kms. I don't remember our 14 km route but there was a field/fence line complete with horses that made me think maybe we had headed in this direction. By the way, completely off topic but while I don't remember the route we ran that night I do remember where it ended because after talking me through the first 13.5 km without any slowing to a walk he sent us up Little Mountain to finish!! My legs were jelly at the top.
Back to biking with Cam, while he still wasn't complaining he did have a sore butt and so his daddy's technique of taking your mind off the distance and breaking it into achievable bits ended up being a lot of fun and successful too as we took in all the pretty farms and homes around us. And soon we were on the home stretch. To Sam's friend's house, around another telephone pole, the road where Sam's begining disaster had almost made me throw in the towel. And as we crossed the road there came Steve and the kids in the truck.
I think it will be a long while before Cam forgets his Daddy's smile, raised fist and cheer when Steve saw him cheerfully trucking along so close to the finish line. That kind of encouragement and love is the stuff that will push him to the finish line a few times in his life yet, I think! Steve asked Cam if he was going to finish... with the unsaid question being if he just wanted Steve to pull up and throw the bike in the truck but Cam cheerfully informed him he was just about done and when he finished the ride he was heading for an icecream cone :)
And so those little legs went back to pumping furiously trying to get to the finish line before Steve could get his truck turned around. He didn't quite succeed but he didn't mind either as he skidded to a halt on the gravel and stuck out his hand to get excited high fives from Steve, Leah and Sam. With thoughts of an upcoming ice cream, the sore butt was now a trophy of the finished route and he proudly told the others of his pain!
Quitely I asked Steve how the others had done and was so thankful to hear that despite it's beginning the bike ride had been a delight for all and Steve, drenched in sweat, had thoroughly enjoyed his run.
We piled the bikes back into the truck and headed with cheering and excited kids for a McD's cone.
God is so good to give us these special times and the healthy bodies to be able to do it!