Maybe... maybe not. Maybe "certainly not a wonderful time of year" on the afternoon everyone wants to write their friends a Christmas card!!!!
Now, it was certainly better than the same activity last year. I probably still had some remaining hives and trauma from THAT. But, it's a crazy afternoon for sure!
With 2 kids begging to do cards - while I had a friend over visiting
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mom giving permission even though she's too busy to supervise
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a ridiculous amount of rifling and mess making to find just the right kind and amount of cards
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2 more kids adding into the "please can we write cards" mix
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supper to be made
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tears because he/she stole/touched/looked at my cards or envelopes
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one unsuspecting husband walking through the door and being greeted with 12" deep pile of paper on the table he's hoping to be served supper on post haste, as well as wailing and snot because of aforementioned tears
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"I wrote all my names on my envelopes but they must be the wrong ones because the cards don't fit in these ones"
well... let's just say I'll be glad when they either a) don't care about giving cards b) are completely independent in their list making and printing and c) furthermore have their own means to go to the store and pick out exactly what they want!
All that being said, after supper I went through their stacks and was blown away by the differences in the cards and what the differences said about the kids, some to my surprise, some not.
1 child took no care in penmanship but made sure to include the "dear" and "from".
1 child did ok for neatness but was sure to choose the quickest route of "from... " on the inside with only the friends' names on the envelope. The reasoning was that way he knew which card was for who but only had to write the names once.
1 child took time to add an extra message to each card.
1 child hasn't yet bothered to write out cards.
But this child????? He sorta surprised me and he sorta didn't. I was sorta surprised that he took as much time to write as neatly as he did. I was sorta surprised that he was willing to take as much time as it did to write an extra sentence. But I WASN'T at all surprised that his extra sentence made me laugh out loud!!!
That Cody! He's quite the boy.